Chapter 7: Worship and the year · Part 4

The year, weddings and funerals

Each tradition's year

Every tradition keeps a year of its own, reckoned with the calendar its people use, and the line under the clock shows its season. Synagogues keep the Hebrew calendar and mosques the Islamic one, so their holy days move against the Gregorian year (Ramadan comes about eleven days earlier each year). Hindu and Jain congregations keep lunisolar years, each festival on its lunar day (its tithi) as it stands at sunrise, noon, or midnight, reckoned at the temple's own location or in India, and their solar days by the sun's entry into a sign of the sidereal zodiac. A gurdwara keeps the Nanakshahi calendar's fixed dates or the SGPC's lunar ones. Buddhist temples keep the lunar calendar, the full moons, or their school's own days; Chinese temples the Chinese lunar year, its 1st and 15th every month (leap months too), with Qingming and the solstice by the solar terms; a shrine New Year, Setsubun on the eve of spring, and its own festivals. Most Christian traditions keep a church year: Western churches the Western calendar, the Orthodox the Eastern, with Pascha by the Julian reckoning (never earlier than Western Easter); the Quakers keep none. Only the church year has liturgical colours. Faiths and traditions covers every calendar.

FaithIts seasonsSeasons and days without weddings
JudaismElul, the Days of Awe, Sukkot, Hanukkah, Passover, the OmerWhere two festival days are kept (Conservative, Orthodox, Chabad): Passover, the Omer, and the Three Weeks, and the festivals. Everywhere: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Passover, Shavuot, Tisha B'Av
IslamRamadan; for the Shia, the Muharram majalis and the mourning to Arba'eenFor the Shia, Muharram and Safar, to Arba'een
BuddhismObon (Shin); the rains retreat and the Kathina season (Theravada); Vu Lan month and the summer retreat (Vietnamese); the filial month, the Water and Land, and the Amitabha recitation (Chinese); Saka Dawa (Tibetan); the Rohatsu sesshin (Zen)None
HinduismNavaratri; chaturmas (North Indian and Swaminarayan temples); Dhanurmasa (South Indian); the Damodara month (ISKCON); Durga Puja (Vedanta)Chaturmas, at a North Indian or Swaminarayan temple
SikhismShaheedi week, for the SahibzadeNone
JainismParyushana (Das Lakshana for the Digambara), the Ayambil Olis, chaturmasParyushana and Samvatsari; Das Lakshana
ShintoHatsumode (a shrine); New Year visits and the Winter Special Prayer (Konko)None
Chinese religionThe New Year fortnight; the ghost month (the seventh)The ghost month, at a folk temple
ChristianityThe church year, below, with its coloursThe Orthodox and Coptic strict fasts
Western church yearColourEastern church yearColour
AdventvioletNativity Fastred
ChristmastidewhiteNativity and Theophanywhite
Season after EpiphanygreenBefore Great Lentgold
LentvioletGreat Lentviolet
Holy WeekredHoly Weekblack
EastertidewhitePaschal seasonred
Ordinary TimegreenAfter Pentecostgold

Big days

Some feasts make the congregation more likely to come to a service near them, or to the feast's own service where it has one, and newcomers feel them twice as much: a feast that makes regulars twice as likely to come (up to 98%) brings three times the usual newcomers. The year's great days in every faith:

FaithFeastRegularsNewcomersNotes
JudaismRosh Hashanah, Kol Nidre, Yom Kippur×2.5 (×3 Reform, Reconstructionist)×4 (×5)Each a service of its own (below). Where seats are sold, those who don't belong buy them.
IslamEid al-Fitr; Eid al-Adha×2.5; ×2.2 (Shia ×2.2; ×2)×4; ×3.4The Eid prayer is a service of its own on each.
IslamAshura (Shia)×2.2×3.4The Ashura majlis is a service of its own.
BuddhismObon (Shin); Vesak and Songkran (Theravada); Tết, the Buddha's birthday, and Vu Lan (Vietnamese)×2×3Kathina, the Theravada temple's great offering, ×1.8.
BuddhismLunar New Year, the Buddha's birthday, the Water and Land (Chinese Buddhist)×2.5×4Each a service of its own.
HinduismDiwali (Deepavali); Phagwah at an Indo-Caribbean mandir; Maha Shivaratri×2.5; ×2.5; ×2.2×4; ×4; ×3.4Diwali and Shivaratri are services of their own.
HinduismJanmashtami at ISKCON; the Swaminarayan New Year and Annakut×3×5Janmashtami's midnight arati is a service of its own; ISKCON's Ratha Yatra ×2.5.
SikhismVaisakhi, Guru Nanak's gurpurab×2.5×4Guru Gobind Singh's gurpurab and Bandi Chhor Divas ×2. Celebrated at the diwan nearest them.
JainismSamvatsari; Mahavir Janma Vanchan, Anant Chaturdashi×3 (×2.5 at Jain Vishva Bharati); ×2.5×5; ×4Each a service of its own. Mahavir Jayanti ×2.
ShintoHatsumode, the shrine's New Year×5×9 visitorsNo service: the crowd comes to the open hours, thousands, nearly all passing through. Shichi-Go-San ×2.5; the autumn grand festival ×2, a service of its own.
Chinese religionLunar New Year's Eve and New Year, the god's birthday; the Ghost Festival (Pudu)×3; ×2.5×5; ×4A folk temple's first incense, the god's birthday, and Pudu are services of their own.
ChristianityChristmas, Easter Day (Western); Pascha; the Nativity (Eastern)×2; ×2.2; ×1.8×3; ×3.4; ×2.6Christmas Eve is a service of its own (below). Palm Sunday, Theophany, and Pentecost are a little busier than usual.

The lesser feasts' pull on newcomers is capped: over any 30 days they may bring at most half as many newcomers again as the usual 30 days' (counting all of a feast's own service's newcomers, and those a feast day's open hours bring who might come back). The year's great days stand outside the cap (any feast drawing at least as many again as usual, or the calendar's biggest: every row of the table above), so a calendar crowded with lesser days, a shrine's 1st and 15th or a Hindu temple's autumn festivals, doesn't bring a steady stream of newcomers no congregation sees. Who among the congregation comes is unchanged.

On some days a congregation holds none of its own main services: General Conference and stake conference Sundays for a Latter-day Saint ward, which gathers with the wider church instead. Daily services, where a tradition keeps them, still go on.

Special services

Some days have one service for everyone, not just one service's share. Church → Services lists those your tradition keeps, with the next date of each; untick Hold it on any your congregation doesn't hold. Most faiths hold some of their greatest days this way, drawing the day's crowd and its newcomers (a gurdwara, a Shin or Theravada temple, and BAPS keep theirs at the main service nearest them instead):

ServiceWhenWho keeps it
Rosh Hashanah9:00, four hoursEvery synagogue
Kol Nidre20 minutes before sunset on the eve of Yom Kippur, two hoursEvery synagogue
Yom Kippur9:30, five hoursEvery synagogue
The Eid prayerAn hour and a half after sunrise on each Eid, an hourEvery Muslim community
The Ashura majlis10:00, three hoursA Twelver Shia center
The New Year blessing, Bathing the Buddha, Ullambana, the Emperor Liang Repentance, the Water and LandFrom 9:00 or 10:00, two to six hoursA Chinese Buddhist temple
Diwali's Lakshmi puja (a Diwali service at an Indo-Caribbean mandir)An hour after sunset (half an hour at a mandir), two hoursA Hindu temple, an Indo-Caribbean mandir
The Shivaratri abhishekam7:00 in the evening, five hoursA Hindu temple, an Indo-Caribbean mandir
Janmashtami's midnight arati10:00 at night, two hoursISKCON, a North Indian temple
Kali Puja9:00 at night, three hoursThe Vedanta Society
The all-day Christmas meditationThe third Saturday of December, from 10:00, six hoursSRF
Mahavir Janma Vanchan10:00 in Paryushana, four hoursA Jain center
The Samvatsari pratikramanTwo hours before sunset, three hoursA Jain center, Jain Vishva Bharati
The Anant Chaturdashi vidhan9:00, four hoursA Digambara jinalaya
The monthly rite (tsukinamisai)The 1st and 15th, 10:00, 45 minutesA Shinto shrine
The autumn grand festival (reitaisai)The first Sunday of October, 10:00, two hoursA Shinto shrine
New Year's Day service1 January, 10:00, an hour and a halfA Konko church
The monthly service; the Spring and Autumn Grand ServicesThe third Sunday, 10:00, two hours; the second Sundays of April and November, two and a half hoursA Tenrikyo church
The first incense11:00 on Lunar New Year's Eve, an hourA Chinese folk temple
The god's birthday rite; Pudu10:00, three hours; 10:00 in the ghost month, four hoursA Chinese folk temple
The All Souls rite10:00 in the seventh month, three hoursA Daoist temple
The Grand Ceremonies to the MotherThe 15th of the third, sixth, ninth, and eleventh lunar months, 10:00, two hoursYiguandao
Christmas Eve24 December, 5 pmChristian traditions with a church year (nearly everyone comes, with four times the newcomers)
Ash Wednesday46 days before Easter, 7 pmWestern liturgical Christian traditions (under half a Sunday)
Good FridayThe Friday before Easter, 7 pmChristian traditions with a church year (under half a Sunday)
Easter sunriseEaster morning, 6:30, before the usual servicesChristian traditions with a church year (half a Sunday)
Thanksgiving eveThe Wednesday before Thanksgiving, 7 pmChristian traditions that keep the nation's holidays (half a Sunday)

Where the tradition keeps communion (the Christian ones), each special service has it as your tradition would on that day (every one, where communion is weekly) until you set its Communion toggle, on or off; the congregation's own special services have it too.

Church → Services can add the congregation's own special services too, in any tradition, in a dialog: Add a special service, or Change on one already there. Give it a name, and say how it comes round: one day or yearly on a date (picked from a calendar), a weekday of a month (the third Sunday of October, the last Friday of November), or, where the tradition keeps the church year, so many days from Easter (Ascension is 39 days after; your tradition's own Easter, so Orthodox churches follow Pascha) or from Christmas (Epiphany is 12 days after). Then when it starts, how long it lasts (− and +), and whether it draws fewer than an ordinary week's main service, as many, or more. The dialog says when the next one falls, and nothing changes until you save it.

Most special services are extras, felt half as much as an ordinary service: Easter sunrise, Good Friday, a shrine's monthly rite, Tenrikyo's monthly service, the congregation's own. The year's greatest are felt in full, as an ordinary week's main service is, in every faith alike: Christmas Eve, and a great day's own service (one whose feast draws at least as many again as usual, or the calendar's biggest): Rosh Hashanah, Kol Nidre and Yom Kippur, the Eid prayers and Ashura, Diwali's Lakshmi puja, Maha Shivaratri and Janmashtami, Samvatsari, the folk temple's first incense and its god's birthday, the Buddha's birthday, the shrine's autumn grand festival, Tenrikyo's Grand Services, Yiguandao's Grand Ceremonies.

On a great day, people are two and a half to three times as likely to come (up to 98%), and four or five times the usual newcomers come with them: the High Holy Days, the Eid prayer, Diwali, Samvatsari, the folk temple's first incense, Christmas Eve. A building sized for an ordinary week overflows and people stand. It's your best recruiting day of the year if you have the seats and the greeters: consider extra seats (chairs, or more rows of carpet or sheets), and every greeter and usher on duty.

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Dressed for the day

Every faith's year has its seasons and festivals to dress for: the Christian church year's paraments, Advent wreath, Christmas candles, and Easter lilies; a synagogue's Sukkah at Sukkot and its Hanukkah lamp; a mosque's lanterns through Ramadan; Diwali's lamps at a mandir, a derasar, or a gurdwara; a gurdwara's lights for Vaisakhi and the gurpurabs; the New Year couplets at a Chinese temple; the lanterns of Obon, Ullambana, and Vesak; the kadomatsu at a shrine's gate for New Year. Each piece is out (and drawn in the church) only in its season or within a few days of its festival, and the build tray offers it only to its own faiths.

Paraments in the green of the Season after Epiphany: a frontal on the altar and falls on the pulpit and lectern.
Paraments in the green of the Season after Epiphany: a frontal on the altar and falls on the pulpit and lectern.

Traditions with seasons to dress for notice whether the building is dressed for them. After each service (and each visit at open hours) they compare the decor the day calls for with what the congregation owns, placed or in the cupboard: from −0.04 with none to +0.04 with all, scaled by the tradition's formality (in full for the most formal traditions, a third for the least). A Christian church's paraments are called for all year; every other piece, in any faith, only in its season, and outside the seasons nothing is called for, so the factor is neither plus nor minus.

ItemWhoPriceOut
SukkahEvery synagogue$2,500Sukkot
ParamentsChristian$2,400Always, in the colour of the day, on the altar, table, pulpit, and lectern
Advent wreathChristian$250Advent
Christmas Eve candlesChristian$300Christmas through Christmastide
Easter liliesChristian$400Easter Day through the Easter season
Hanukkah menorahJewish$350The eight nights of Hanukkah
Ramadan lanternsMuslim$500Ramadan, its Nights of Power, and Eid al-Fitr
Muharram clothsMuslim (where the calendar keeps Muharram: the Shia)$350The first ten days of Muharram and Ashura
DiyasHindu, Jain, Sikh$300Diwali or Deepavali and its days (Dhanteras, Annakut, Bhai Dooj), Karthigai Deepam, Kali Puja; the Jains' Mahavir Nirvana and New Year; the Sikhs' Bandi Chhor Divas
Marigold garlandsHindu$400Navaratri (or Durga Puja) through Dussehra
Gurpurab lightsSikh$400Vaisakhi, Guru Nanak's and Guru Gobind Singh's gurpurabs, Bandi Chhor Divas
Dreams of TrishalaJain$500Mahavir Janma Vanchan, in Paryushana (a Svetambara derasar's)
Vesak lanternsBuddhist$400Vesak, Saga Dawa, Poson, the Buddha's birthday (Hanamatsuri, Phat Dan)
Bon lanternsBuddhist, Chinese$400Obon and its service, Segaki, Ullambana, Vu Lan; the ghost month, Pudu, and the All Souls rite
New Year coupletsChinese, Buddhist$250Lunar New Year (Tet) and its eve, through the Lantern Festival
KadomatsuShinto, Konko, Tenrikyo$400New Year and the first visits; the year-end purification

Church → Worship lists the decor the season calls for, with a Buy button for anything you're missing. A church's four Christian pieces together cost $3,350, a synagogue's two $2,850, and every other faith's a few hundred dollars a piece: an easy lift at the festivals for any formal congregation. Only a Christian church feels its decor (the paraments) all year; elsewhere it's felt at the festivals alone, and missing it costs nothing the rest of the year.

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Weddings and funerals

Community → Weddings and funerals: those booked and held, how many came, and the fees.
Community → Weddings and funerals: those booked and held, how many came, and the fees.

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